Smadar's Sane Way
Life is all about relationships. With others, and with ourselves. It's also full of conflicts, with others and... with ourselves :-) Happiness and contentedness are a result of learning how to balance those contradicting forces.
Sunday, August 7, 2022
Tisha'a Be'Av - On that I'm crying
Sunday, March 21, 2021
What does the number 3333 means to you?
בס"ד
What does the number 3333 means to you?
In the year 2448 to creation HaShem took us out of Egypt and gave us the Torah.
We are now in the year 5781 to creation, this is exactly 3333 years since we had Egypt exodus and Matan Torah.
Gematria 3 = the Hebrew letter Gimel: ג.
Hence -> גגגג
Rings a bell?
Gog Umagog - גּוֹג ומגּוֹג!
We are exiting now a גּוֹג ומגּוֹג year. The entire humanity, the entire world was dealing with exactly the same invisible enemy: מגיפה, Pandemic, Covid-19, Corona, Crown 👑.
The king of all kings signaling us.
Everywhere we look there are signs, clues, that we are now in a wonderous times, miracles, Nisei Nisim in Nisan.
HaRabanit Yemima Mizrachi say that in her opinion Mashiach is comin now.
As it is written (שבת קיח, ב):
"אם ישמרו ישראל שתי שבתות, מייד נגאלים."
The Talmud reports (Shabbat 118:2): "If all Jews were to observe just two Shabbats properly, the final redemption would occur."
This year we have Shabbat this coming Shabbat, "Shabbat HaGadol", and immediately after that Shabbat, on Motzaei Shabbat, we have Leil HaSeder. The first day of Pesach is called Shabbat.
About Sefirat HaOmer is is said (ויקרא כג, טו):
"וּסְפַרְתֶּם לָכֶם מִמָּחֳרַת הַשַּׁבָּת"
"And from the day the day after the sabbath—you shall count" (Leviticus 23:15).
Hence: Two Shabbats.
Mashiach is standing right at the entrance.
Chag Pesach Sameach ve Kasher, Smadar 🙋🏻♀
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> May be forwarded without changed for the merit of Am Israel.
מה אומר לך המספר 3333?
בשנת -2248 לבריאת העולם יצאנו ממצרים וקיבלנו את התורה.
אנחנו עכשיו בשנת 5781 לבריאות העולם - זה בדיוק 3333 מזמן יציאת מצרים וקבלת התורה.
3 בגימטריה = ג
מכאן-> גגגג
מזכיר משהו?
גּוֹג ומגּוֹג!
עברה עלינו שנה של גוג ומגוג.
האנושות כולה, כל העולם כולו התמודד בדיוק עם אותו אויב בלתי נראה:
מגיפה, Pandemic, Covid-19. Corona, Crown.
כתר 👑.
מלך מלכי המלכים בעצמו מאותת לנו.
מכל כיוון יש סימנים, רמזים, שאנחנו בזמן מופלא.
ניסי ניסים בניסן.
הרבנית ימימה מזרחי אומרת שלדעתה המשיח מגיע. כי כתוב "אם ישמרו ישראל שתי שבתות, מייד נגאלים." (שבת קיח, ב). השנה יש לנו בשבת הקרובה שבת, "שבת הגדול", ומיד אחריה, במוצאי "שבת הגדול", ליל הסדר. היום הראשון של פסח נקרא שבת. בספירת העומר כתוב "וּסְפַרְתֶּם לָכֶם מִמָּחֳרַת הַשַּׁבָּת" (ויקרא כג, טו). קיבלנו: שתי שבתות.
אין. אין. משיח ממש בפתח.
חג פסח שמח וכשר, ושבת שלום ומבורך, סמדר 🙋🏻♀
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Friday, August 18, 2017
Ner Echad: Give * Light * Unite - Join the Movement!
They call it: NER ECHAD (one candle).
Friday, March 24, 2017
The Cauliflower's Wisdom - Some Thoughts from the Kitchen:
So here is a fresh one:
Yesterday, a lovely cauliflower captured my eye while shopping for Shabbat.
I thought I’ll make a whole baked cauliflower in the oven for Shabbat Kiddush Dinner.
Today, while taking the cauliflower out of the fridge, I reconsidered, “maybe I’ll make something healthier?” I thought to myself, and decided to go with my roasted cauliflower salad.
While breaking the cauliflower to small flowers and rinsing them in the kitchen sink, my eye caught a little black ‘something’ washing onto the white sink’s surface. I immediately shut off the water and dabbed a paper towel on it to lift it off carefully and see what it is.
A bug I probably would not have found had I not break the cauliflower apart, which wouldn’t happen if I went ahead with my original plan to bake the cauliflower whole.
Thank HaShem for small miracles.
I’m floored by HaShem’s watching each and every aspect of our lives. I am so moved by HaShem’s Hashgacha Pratit. It’s these little things that amaze me anew – and I am so grateful I get to feel this in full.
Maybe when you grow up frum you get used to this, like the Desert Generation got used to the Manna falling down from the Heavens each and every morning. You get used to it, it does not seem to be out of the ordinary when this is your ordinary.
How many of us stop to watch the sun rises in the morning in awe; Amazed by the miracle and its beauty. It’s like Hashem picks up His painter’s brush and generously waves it across the sky, creating a unique and different colored symphony each dawn, purples and blues, peaches and pinks, oranges and everything in between. Sometimes he mixes it with clouds, sometimes he leaves the canvas as is, and it’s so pretty -- it can make you cry.
As a teenager, every day during the morning-milking of the cows I used to watch it in the Kibbutz. We would start in complete darkness, and then it happened, every morning. You would pick up your head and there It was: a breathtaking sunrise. HaShem Himself reveals Himself, I thought back then, and I am still thinking today.
As you can see, even a cauliflower can bring us to tears.
Tears of overflowing feelings of gratitude and happiness to be in HaShem’s world and being fortunate enough to witness His watchful loving eye on us.
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Thursday, August 25, 2016
What I learned from Rebbitzen Jungries A'H
I met her by chance. I know there're no coincidences, and all is orchestrated from above, but at the time it happened it felt totally random.
In the beginning of 2015, while sweating in physical therapy after a knee surgery, the back door opened, and there came into the room the Rebbetzin herself. I didn't notice at first how fragile she was, or how tiny and thin. All I saw was a very pretty woman with a huge smile on her face, and sparkling stars in her eyes.
I was immediately drawn to her. I recognized her from the picture on the back cover her book "Life is A Test" I recently finished reading.
"Shalom", I started in Hebrew, and her eyes lit even more.
"How shall I call you?" I asked, and she smiled even more and said: "Rebbetzin! Call me Rebbetzin! I am The Rebbetzin."
The next week I noticed that the PT receptionist brings over to the Rebbetzin goods from the supermarket: a Challah bread in a plastic packing material, a few fruits or vegetables and maybe a couple of other knickknacks. The Challah bread shocked me. "How can it be that this holly lady eats a store bought Challah?" I was so sad about this.
The next week I did not see her in PT. I asked about her, but of course no one would give me privileged information. Since she previously gave me her email - not just gave me her email, hovered over me and pointed with her finger to the letters I was typing to make sure I enter it correctly so there's: "no chance you might not be able to get in touch with me if you need me" - I emailed her to ask her if it'll be okay with her if I bring her my home backed Challah every week, and where to.
and email me when you drop it off, someone will pick it up for me.
Much love and many Brachot,
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Friday, July 15, 2016
What I learned in 30 years of marriage
- That HaShem loves me very much – He sent him to me.
- That being stubborn is an advantage – holding and not letting go, insisting on the togetherness even when is though.
- That to be lenient is required – it’s just not worth it to spoil the ‘us’ on account the personal.
- That there is no point in trying to change the other – hardly ourselves is difficult.
- That children are the bridge to ourselves – together and separately.
- That it’s not just more important to give then to receive, it’s preferable.
- That at the end of every giving there’s receiving.
- That inner bliss does not depend on an outside approval.
- That happiness is contagions.
- That the house needs to be taken care of just like we take care of us and the kids.
- That accepting the other as is – begins with accepting ourselves as is.
- That there is nothing like waking up the house with the smell of frying egg and fresh salad.
- That only when it’s good in the company of myself – it’s good in the company of others.
- That your spouse cannot replace a best friend – but he is the best friend in the whole wide world.
- That devotion is very moving.
- That doing something only because the other wants to – is love.
- That good couplehood is not how he fulfills my needs 0 but how can I fulfill his needs.
- That loving him is a privilege.
- That we are not identical – but we are so much alike.
- That we are not the same – but this is what makes it all so worth it.
- That I love him more every day.
- That I still envy him – even though it happened over 31 years ago.
- That when it’s hard on the outside – getting closer makes it all much more easy.
- That what we have now – it the best thing to have.
- That it’s better not to take it personally – even though it’s impossible to tale it publicly.
- That it’s possible to say whatever you want to – but it’s really the tone that makes the music.
- That there is no one that knows me so well – truly.
- That it is a miracle every day.
- That there is nothing like the moment he enters home at the end of every day.
- And that being wrapped up in his hug – is the most at home that there is.
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Tuesday, May 31, 2016
When Expectations Differ
Originally published in the Jewish Press Mind Body & Soul insert on May 27, 2016
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